{"id":22649,"date":"2024-11-14T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-14T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/urc\/urc-daily-devotion-14-november-2024"},"modified":"2024-11-14T06:00:00","modified_gmt":"2024-11-14T06:00:00","slug":"urc-daily-devotion-14-november-2024","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/urc-daily-devotion-14-november-2024\/","title":{"rendered":"URC Daily Devotion 14 November 2024"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\"><strong>Safeguarding 4<\/strong> <\/span>Forgiveness \u2013 the last step?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">St Matthew 6: 9-14&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><br \/>&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Jesus said: \u2018Pray then in this way:&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Our Father in heaven, <\/span><br \/>hallowed be your name.<br \/>Your kingdom come.<br \/>Your will be done,<br \/>&nbsp; &nbsp; on earth as it is in heaven.<br \/>Give us this day our daily bread.<br \/>And forgive us our debts,<br \/>&nbsp; &nbsp; as we also have forgiven our debtors.<br \/>And do not bring us to the time of trial,<br \/>&nbsp; &nbsp; but rescue us from the evil one.&nbsp;<br \/>&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>&nbsp;<br \/><strong><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Reflection&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Almost every service of Christian worship includes the Lord\u2019s Prayer in some form or other.&nbsp; It is the prayer that every Christian knows by heart and, if we are honest, is often prayed without too much thought.&nbsp; The rhythm and familiarity give comfort.&nbsp; Yet, for some the prayer can be terrifying.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Forgiveness can be used as a weapon by the Church; those who have experienced abuse, oppression, and injustice can be silenced by those who tell them they have failed to forgive their abuser.&nbsp; Jesus\u2019 words implying that God\u2019s forgiveness is linked by our forgiveness of others can be a text of terror.&nbsp; Winnie Johnson, the mother of Keith Bennett murdered in the 1960s, was a faithful Christian but could not bring herself to pray the <\/span>Our Father.&nbsp; Forgiveness can be a weapon we use against ourselves.&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Yet, perhaps, we could reimagine forgiveness to be something rather liberating.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span> <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\" dir=\"ltr\"><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">To forgive does not mean we forget.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\" dir=\"ltr\"><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">To forgive does not mean we say that what happened does not matter.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\" dir=\"ltr\"><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">To forgive does not mean we would trust an abuser not to abuse again.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\" dir=\"ltr\"><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">To forgive does not mean we don\u2019t deal with the issue.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Instead, forgiveness could mean not allowing the abuser, the bully, or the torturer to have power over us anymore. &nbsp; It might mean letting go of the bitterness that holds us back. It might mean living our lives without reference to another\u2019s desire to control. &nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Forgiveness might be a final step in a journey of healing and freedom; it might be facilitated by true repentance (not just saying sorry but facing up to justice) and the administration of justice itself \u2013 which we will look at tomorrow.&nbsp; Whatever forgiveness is, it must not be a weapon used by the Church, or its well-meaning members, to make itself feel less uncomfortable.&nbsp; Instead, we need to think more about the power of forgiveness and diverse ways in which we might understand it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Prayer&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Forgive us, good Lord, <\/span><br \/>when we use your words as weapons,<br \/>when we insist the bruised are further hurt,<br \/>and when our discomfort makes us insist&nbsp;<br \/>others act to make us feel better.&nbsp;<br \/><span id=\"docs-internal-guid-5c43ed34-7fff-beb6-dd6b-6b15aef3be87\">Help us, instead, to see forgiveness as freedom from bondage, <\/span><br \/>liberation from control, and power to change.<br \/>Amen&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Safeguarding 4 Forgiveness \u2013 the last step?&nbsp; St Matthew 6: 9-14&nbsp;&nbsp;Jesus said: \u2018Pray then in this way:&nbsp;&nbsp;Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.Your kingdom come.Your will be done,&nbsp; &nbsp; on earth as it is in heaven.Give us this day our daily bread.And forgive us our debts,&nbsp; &nbsp; as we also have forgiven our debtors.And &hellip; <\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/urc-daily-devotion-14-november-2024\/\" class=\"button more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;URC Daily Devotion 14 November 2024&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22649"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22649\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trinitywimbledon.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}